I have always loved making new friends and connecting with other people. Ever since I was a little kid, I have loved to talk to and learn from the people around me. As an extrovert, I was extremely excited to meet new people this summer. I have made new friends in two big ways that have been very different from how I have normally met people.

The first is with the girls in my program. We are all very different, and it’s unlikely that we would all be friends if not for this program. The experiences we’ve shared this summer have created a bond and understanding between us that will last far beyond these three months. I am so grateful for the kindness, inclusiveness, and encouragement that each girl has shown me. I have found an amazing community among the girls. For that, I am incredibly thankful. 

The second is with the people that I have met throughout Italy. Many people that I interact with on a daily basis do not speak English. Although this language barrier has been frustrating, it has caused me to rely heavily on hand gestures and facial expressions. It has been a valuable experience to connect with people while relying on different means of communication other than speaking. Everyone has been welcoming and gracious and they have been excited to interact with me and the other girls. These friendships have shown me how similar people are, despite coming from different cultures.

I am so grateful for all of the new friends I have met this summer. They have all taught me how to love those around me better, and how to meet people with understanding. I know that I will carry these lessons with me throughout the rest of my life. Thank you to all 21 of my new friends from the JSB program and thank you to the people of Ariccia. You have made me better!

Hailey Benting

This is a picture of me with Paolo and his wife Barbara! They own a coffee shop in Ariccia and have been so kind to us all summer. They have become dear friends of ours!