Expectations Abroad

Never in my life did I imagine I would be living in a foreign country for twelve weeks. I’m a girl who loves comfort and structure. I always need my ducks in a row and rarely enjoy navigating new situations. This comfortable life I’ve lived, although simple, has lacked the adventure and growth needed to become my best self, which led me to the Joseph S. Bruno program. I joined this program because I knew it was out of my comfort zone. I signed up with no one I knew, several months in advance, and with very little thought. I’m not sure what led me to this program, given that it’s the longest program Auburn offers, but I’m so glad I found myself here. I’m going into my third week and have already learned so much. I’d love to share some expectations that are worth having before you jet set to your new home abroad.

First off, keep an open mind. Shipping my life across seas to a place that is completely different than I’m used to is a scary thing. Thankfully, everyone else on my trip feels the same way and wants a friend as well. My advice is to just be kind to them, get to know what makes them different, and be encouraged that you can sharpen one another. I promise nothing brings you closer than traveling and figuring out hard things together.

Secondly, it’s ok to miss home. I’ve had to learn to give myself credit and that I’m doing a hard thing and hard things take time to get adjusted to. Bring photos and letters from home when you miss friends and family and never forget to make Facetime calls. Keep a journal and write every detail down. It’s fun to look back on how you were feeling at each moment throughout your trip. Although at times it’s hard to miss the people you’re closest to, use it as an opportunity to lean on those around you and grow in your independence.

Lastly, take each day as an opportunity to grow. Never in my life will I be able to spend 12 weeks exploring Italy with such an amazing group of students. Each one of my days is different than another and will teach me different lessons I will carry for the rest of my life. Whether it’s a cooking class, a wine tasting, catching the bus to Rome, or late nights in the palace, I hope to never take one for granted, given that each moment will be something I cherish forever.  

War Eagle and happy traveling,

Caroline Klein

Ellis Thompson and I at the Trevi Fountain in Rome.